Ever been stuck in your life or business before? Nah, not you right? Me either.

OK, now that we’ve amused ourselves and are ready to step out of denial, let me share something with you that I learned from one of my favorite mentors, (Eben Pagan), that has become a huge part of my success and has made a big impact on my personal growth and in my life’s work.

Eben is someone that I get to hang out with at events, as well as dinner and parties now and then; he is extremely successful with a company set to earn around $30 Million this year from home, and this strategy is one of the biggest reasons why, so I would pay close attention if I were you, I know I did.

The problem that I see over and over again is that so many well meaning people are stuck, frustrated, overwhelmed, or addicted to seminars and info products, (just read my story about “Self Help Hell” in the meet Scott section) that never quite seem to accomplish what they SAY they want to get done or take it to the next level. And that gets me upset AND mad at the same time because they’re holding back from sharing their authentic gifts and talents with the world, and we all suffer because of it.

I know because I was one of them.

So Why Is That?

Speaking from my own experience, I knew what I wanted to do for years, but never quite got around to it. In my mind I actually got myself to believe that I was doing something  because I was THINKING about it all the time, dreaming about it, living it in my mind, but at the end of the day, I wasn’t doing it or being real with myself, and I wasn’t doing what I really wanted to do. Why? It usually always comes down to a couple of key components with the big fat trouble maker smack dab in the middle, namely F.E.A.R, the wild, untamed animal that tries to keep us playing small instead of the big, kick ass, cool dudes and dudesses (is that a word?) that we are.

What I’m about to share with you is something that I’ve been utilizing more and more and it will show you how to consistently grow in ways you can’t even imagine AND at the same time, ramp up your success in any area of your life to a whole new level quickly ANYTIME you want. It just flat out works, period.

This one idea, if implemented consistently (and it’s going to test you, scare you, and push your buttons), will rock your world with EXCITEMENT and FEAR, which is always the best indicator to me that you’re on the right path, and you just HAVE to do it.

If you choose the right stuff to focus on, you’ll be jumping up and down like a little kid on a sugar high grinning from ear to ear, and people will look at you like you’re really weird because you’re happy and having fun, (most people are sheepwalking and stopped fully living and having fun a long time ago, sad but true).

Now we know if you’re a “creative entrepreneur type”, that A) you are pretty weird in a good way of course (go ahead, you can admit it), and B) you’ve got your work cut out for you, but it’s worth every second of the journey because living your potential AND stepping into your stuff (all of it) is the only way to live, welcome to the club; (now go sit in the corner for a time out, because you know adults aren’t allowed to have fun, shame on you).

The Secret Sauce

OK, so here is the missing piece to why most people will never get what they want accomplished, or at the very least, not get to the next level, are you ready? Are you sure? (God I sound like a marketer don’t I, please send help)

Here goes:

“Set a condition in place that makes the outcome that you want Inevitable.”

Definition of Inevitable:

Unable to be avoided, evaded, or escaped; certain; necessary: an inevitable conclusion.

It’s simple AND extremely powerful.

OK, Mad Spiritual Guy, what the hell does that mean, and what about my needs?

So glad you asked Grasshopper…

Here’s the scoop.

If you want to ABSOLUTELY get something done, manifest a goal, create a project etc. there is NOTHING more powerful than accountability and/or going public with it.

For example, let’s say that you’ve been TALKING for years about publishing a book, creating a product, becoming  a speaker, a stand up comedian, or selling everything that you own and running naked through the Icy Tundras (oh wait, that’s one’s mine sorry.)

So let’s take the speaker idea as an example. If you’ve never spoke in front of a crowd, are scared to death, but KNOW that you want to, then how can you make that outcome inevitable so that fear doesn’t win? (Because News Flash, Fear never really goes away. Every powerful person that I know, keeps raising the bar, and facing fear head on…get used to it).

One way is to book a speaking engagement to get in front of an audience that really matters to you. Now you have a date set and you need to get your little butt on stage fear or no fear.

To further your cause, make an announcement to your entire email list or document the before, during , and after speech on YouTube or a public blog with the specific date and description of what you’re delivering and show your journey (You might even find some fans and help some other people face their fears).

And to rub it in even deeper, toss it out to Twitter and Facebook, so all your friends and followers know all about it, and then if you don’t follow through, they can tweet to their 100K followers that you’re a total chicken poop.

If you don’t deliver on what you said, you may suffer great humiliation and perhaps 1000 lashes, which quite frankly is a great motivator. Just sayin’ and we Humans are far more motivated by pain than pleasure, (go figure).

I know this isn’t always going to be easy, but it’s a fantastic tool to get what you “say” that you want, and stop letting fear or excuses run you (and we all struggle with that). Some people have enough self discipline to do all this on their own (very few I might add), and it takes time to create new habits, but I guarantee you, that if you adopt this and REALLY commit to setting conditions in place that make your desired outcome inevitable, it will change your life fast, and you will become a whole different person every single time you commit and follow through.

Key Questions to Ask

If you get in the habit of asking these questions on a regular basis, you will see your results and your personal/business growth soar through the roof.

1. What conditions do I need to put into place so the outcome and results that I want to happen do so automatically?
2. How can I make this outcome/result inevitable?

You can find multiple ways that guarantee that you get it done, like hire a coach, team up with an accountability partner, donate to a charity if you don’t deliver, set public dates for launches, etc. and of course if all else fails, you can always sell everything you own and run naked through the Icy Tundras, and make sure you live stream it on Ustream TV for all of us to see.

I’m rooting for you, (and I’m watching you). It’s time we ALL step into our true Authentic power and stop letting fear or ANYTHING else for that matter mess with our visions and missions. So go out and make your dreams Inevitable (or I’m telling Oprah on you).

I would love to hear your comments, stories, fears, triumphs, and ummm (intentions, goals, outcomes, hint hint) so you can make them public, it will change your life guaranteed. And if you enjoyed this post, (and you better have dammit) please hit the RT button on Twitter (or I’ll be mad at you).